While that isn’t precisely my phrasing, I certainly had a similar impact. Either way, thanks for clarifying: my intent (not always the same as impact; see prior) was to point out the way such things may be perceived.
I deeply appreciate, by way of having been in similar situations, that you were frustrated/disappointed with the conversation or yourself—language is hard! I’m glad that frustration was not directed at any contributor, and I am also hopeful that future contributors will see a maintainer who cares about contributors and clear communication and decide they should spend time on this project. That is the source of my use of the word “welcome.” :)