I don't think you need to do anything so drastic. You can just have everybody do the partial merge, commit, and then push their result. And then as you suggest below, one person does the real merge, uses checkout to install the desired result state from each person's partial tree, and then everybody throws away their partial merges.
The trick is that each person will resolve some conflicts and commit, but you need to know which ones they resolved. They can't leave things unmerged in the final commit. So they would have to provide such a list to you; one way is in the commit message[1].
So let's say you have three devs, Alice, Bob, and Charlie, and one integrator, Matt, who will do the merge. Each of the developers does:
git checkout -b partial-merge
git merge old-topic
git mergetool ;# or manually resolve and git add
Eventually they get tired of the conflicts and give up. So they record the list of resolved paths, either manually or with something like[2]:
{
echo 'partial merge result'
echo git status --porcelain | perl -ne '
next if /^U|\?/;
s/^\S+\s+//;
print;
' } >msg
And then they stage the rest of it (knowing it will be ignored by Matt) and commit:
git add -u
git commit -F msg
git push wherever partial-merge
Then Matt does the actual merge:
git merge old-topic
which of course results in lots of conflicts. So he pulls resolved versions from each person's tree:
for i in alice bob charlie; do
git fetch $i
git checkout $i/partial-merge -- \
`git log -1 --format:%b $i/partial-merge`
doneAnd then fixes up whatever's left manually or with git-mergetool, and commits the end result.
Take all of my scripting there as illustrative of the concept, but not necessarily a good idea. In particular, it doesn't handle quoting of filenames at all, and it probably doesn't handle files whose resolution was to be deleted (since the checkout will fail).
-Peff
[1] I also considered that instead of noting the resolved files in the commit message, the developers could just remove anything they didn't resolve. After all, their tree is going to be thrown away eventually. Then Matt could just script around "git ls-tree" to pull their files out. The downside is that there is no way for the developers to say "the resolution is to delete this file", since it just looks like something they didn't resolve.
[2] It really seems like the right command to get the list of resolved files would be "git diff-index" with either a diff-filter, or grepping the output of --name-status. But I couldn't convince it to show me unmerged files; the unmerged entries always just appeared as modifications (actually, deletions in --raw), which made them indistinguishable from modified resolutions.