git push over HTTP; long delay with no progress, then hang?

When running a huge "git push" via protocol v0/v1 over HTTP
(repository is ~10GB, with ~104,000 refs), I observe that:
* Git makes an initial connection for a ref advertisement. This
completes almost instantly because the repository is empty
* "git push" then sits in absolute silence for ~10 minutes

The process chain looks like:
git push <URL>
    git-remote-http <URL> <URL>
        git send-pack --stateless-rpc --helper-status --thin
--progress <URL> --stdin

The "git send-pack" process runs at 100% usage for a single CPU core for this entire duration. Does anyone have any insight into what Git might be doing during this long delay? Whatever it is, is it perhaps something Git should actually print some sort of status for? (I've reproduced this long silence with both Git 2.20.1 and the new Git 2.27.0-rc0.)

After the long delay, I see another HTTP request to the server and then the "git push" process finally goes into "Enumerating objects", "Counting objects", "Compressing objects" and finally "Writing objects".

Another thing I've noticed is that, during this latter part, it _appears_ Git opens a connection to the remote server and _then_ starts enumerating/counting/compressing, without having actually said anything to the server. For this huge push, that actually results in the server aborting the connection due to a read timeout. Why would "git push" open a server connection and _then_ do all the work necessary to create a pack to actually send? (Perhaps this is really an HTTP keepalive issue, where the connection had been used for a previous request?) As with the long silence, I reproduced this with both Git 2.20.1 and 2.27.0-rc0.

Lastly, after the timeout, I observed that my "git push" hung forever with this output displayed: bturner$ /opt/git/2.27.0-rc0/bin/git push <URL> --all Enumerating objects: 13135246, done. Counting objects: 100% (13135246/13135246), done. Delta compression using up to 20 threads Compressing objects: 100% (3867748/3867748), done. Writing objects: 0% (1/13135246)

An lsof on the "git-remote-http" process showed:
bturner$ lsof -p 64855
COMMAND     PID    USER   FD    TYPE             DEVICE  SIZE/OFF
          NODE NAME
git-remot 64855 bturner  cwd     DIR                1,4       352
     168415036 <CWD>
git-remot 64855 bturner  txt     REG                1,4   2305984
     170771507 /opt/git/2.27.0-rc0/libexec/git-core/git-remote-http
git-remot 64855 bturner  txt     REG                1,4     59156
     165457100 /usr/local/Cellar/gettext/0.20.2_1/lib/libintl.8.dylib
git-remot 64855 bturner  txt     REG                1,4     28420
     167195923 /Library/Preferences/Logging/.plist-cache.hR8QH5S4
git-remot 64855 bturner  txt     REG                1,4   1568368
1152921500312496125 /usr/lib/dyld
git-remot 64855 bturner    0    PIPE 0x9a358149ffa29591     65536
               ->0xa5ef9caffef8462c
git-remot 64855 bturner    1    PIPE 0x2dce7cc3b04ce8b8     16384
               ->0x3f62dce60d4a355
git-remot 64855 bturner    2u    CHR               16,8 0t1903241
          2841 /dev/ttys008
git-remot 64855 bturner    3u  systm 0xb078b23901649d47       0t0
               [ctl com.apple.netsrc id 7 unit 48]
git-remot 64855 bturner    4u   unix 0xb078b238edae81ff       0t0
               ->0xb078b238edae8777
git-remot 64855 bturner    5u   IPv6 0xb078b238f873ac47       0t0
           TCP localhost:58980-><host>:<port> (CLOSED)
git-remot 64855 bturner    7    PIPE 0x8e4a8565c7dd32eb     65536
               ->0xaec041bd7407b713
git-remot 64855 bturner    8    PIPE 0x6ed7631819b64580     65536
               ->0x52e7cf331dfd1de7

So at some level it was known that the remote host had closed the socket, but "git-remote-http" was still sitting there.

I can readily reproduce all of this, but unfortunately can't readily share the repository. I'm happy to do anything I can to contribute to debugging, if anyone has any thoughts to share!

Best regards, Bryan Turner